Planned for you, chosen by her. You set the edges together — this fills the middle, so the thread between you does not depend on one person remembering to plan it.
How it works
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She gets ideas. A short digest, a few times a week — already planned, never a blank page.
2
She chooses. Send, discard, or save. Discarded ideas are never seen by the sub.
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He sees only what was sent. The sub's inbox holds only sent items, in her words, with room to reply freely.
Safeword green / yellow / red always applies and always overrides scene talk. Limits are hard-filtered and never suggested. Nothing is emailed, and notifications — if you turn them on — carry no scene content.
Sign in
Sign in to your couple's space
Sign in first. Nothing else on this page does anything until you have signed in.
After signing in, you will set up or join your couple. One couple, two people, shared thread. Signing up asks for a username, an email, and a password (at least 8 characters, with an uppercase letter, a lowercase letter, and a number) — and then a confirmation code sent to that email.
Test mode — local only
For trying the app against a local server only. It does not sign you in to the deployed app, and it needs the local server running with test auth allowed.
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Notes
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Home · Your shared thread
How things stand, right now
The thread is the little continuity between scenes — on, thread-only, or paused. Change it here, in the open, instead of letting it quietly fade.
First: your couple
Set up or join your couple
You need a couple before digests, scenes, and the inbox can work. Create one as the domme, or join with an invite code as the sub.
No couple set yet.
Thread state
On, thread-only, or paused?
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A reason helps the other person read a pause as a pause, not as distance.
When you might talk about restarting. A clear signal beats guessing.
Current arc
Becoming
Form → Attention → Patience.
Each step adds one new twist to a familiar core. Favourites going stale are offered as a twist, not a repeat.
Check-in pulse
How are you, in one colour and one line?
No score, no essay. Green means good to go, yellow means slow down or check in, red means stop — red always stops the scene.
Re-entry
Restarting after a pause
One partner: “I would like to restart.” The other: “I would love to” — or “I can't because of…” Use the pulse line above, or a free-form inbox reply. Space is not abandonment, when it is named.
Digest · For the domme only
Ideas, already planned
At most 3 ideas at a time, planned around what you have said works. The sub never sees this screen. Send what pleases you, discard the rest — discarded items are never seen by the sub, and skipping is not failure.
No draft yet. Get a draft to see your 3 ideas here.
New concept
One new idea to think about
A concept is introduced once, and never suggested again — loved, saved, or discarded, it goes on the ledger and stays there.
New concepts appear here when a digest includes one. See Library for the full ledger.
Build a scene · For the domme
One scene, timed to your window
Tell it how long you have, when, and what you want out of it. You get structure — beats, timing, check-ins, aftercare — not a script, plus a few lines you can use, adapt, or ignore.
Safeword green / yellow / red always applies. Red stops the scene. No locked or tight restraint overnight, and anyone can move or leave freely.
Inbox · For the sub
Only what was sent, in her words
This inbox holds only items the domme chose to send. No vetoed ideas, no digest tips, no planning notes. Reply in your own words, in the free-form box under each item.
Inbox is empty. Nothing has been sent yet.
Library, toys & reminders
What you have tried, what you own, what keeps you connected
Concepts you bookmark or save, toys you actually own, and small reminders for the days you cannot play.
Concept library
Introduced once, never repeated
Bookmark a concept if it really interests you — it will be pinned and surfaced again when a fitting window appears. Save it if it is a maybe. Add a note after trying it: what worked, what didn't, what to change.
Toy inventory
What you own, and what is going stale
Suggestions come from what you already own first. A favourite going stale is offered as a twist before anything new is suggested.
Connection reminders
Every other day, one small idea
One 2-minute idea for staying connected when you cannot play. No streak, no guilt if skipped.
Settings · Account & couple
Your account, your couple, your titles
In-app only. Notifications, if enabled, say only “Your note is ready” or “A message from Ma'am” — no content in the preview.
Your couple id and invite code will appear here after creating or joining.
Your account and couple are linked automatically when you sign in and set up or join a couple — there are no ids for you to type, copy, or keep track of.
Couple profile
How the app gets to know you
This is the missing piece: as a couple, and as individuals. Digests and scenes are generated from what you write here, so the more specific you are, the less generic they get. Only your couple ever sees this. Each person fills in their own section — or the domme fills in all three for now.
Shared — the two of you
Domme
Sub
Saved profiles feed the next digest and the next scene. Editing one section does not erase the others.
Create / join a couple
Safeword system: green / yellow / red. It always overrides scene talk. Limits are hard-filtered and never suggested. This app does not change limits, safewords, or the never-repeat concept ledger.
Signing out returns you to the sign-in page. The app shows no functionality until you sign in again.